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frozen burrito thinks writing about domestic abusers is crossing the line

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Nobody Vill's avatar

Maybe it's invading somones personal life by showing footage from inside their home without context claiming to show "abuse" from a guy who only once gets out of his seat and never even raises his voice.

Consider she may know this is being shared or will be just like Depp did with his recordings so is gonna sound v reasonable.

I've seen guys do psychological manipulation but I've also seen women sound totally reasonable when doing it to make the

You have to be v v careful with these out of context internet videos I've been manipulated and burned by them before.

I've lived psychological manipulation I know it's a thing, it can be worse than physical because the abuser does it in a way that's so subtle to make the guy look like the crazy one.

Stop thinking about what team you are on guys and try looking at it as person X verses person y.

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Firstly, how could Crowder, someone that claims they idealize and adhere to traditional gender roles in marriage do this to his wife?! He throws a fit about her taking the car, and suggests that she takes a Uber! She is 8 months pregnant and his wife! What a strong man, looking out for his wife and their progeny!

Secondly, he then makes her "put on gloves and walk the dogs". She has rightful reservations that the meds could be teratogenic. Once again he fails as the "father/man" role he always expounds! Why couldn't he walk the dogs? Why doesn't he want to protect his children?!

Thirdly, he wasn't present for the birth.....failed again.

Fourthly, he loses his cool witnessed in this video and also later according to his own admission. According to him and conservatives, women, the left, weak individuals are supposed to be hysterical and emotionally lose their cool. The only hysterical one is him, what a fraud!

Oh, and what kind of man smokes around his pregnant wife?! I'm glad that teamster clocked him!

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pj's avatar

here's my thought about where she wanted to go with the car, she probably did have some errands to run but also might've been going to talk to a lawyer or a therapist and didn't want him to know. An Uber rental would give a record of where she went.

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ze's avatar

Nothing in that video is defensible and nothing in your comment is defensible. You're twisting yourself into a pretzel trying to defend the indefensible because you like Crowder. Disgusting.

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pj's avatar

when person X is not the one screaming and yelling, then person Y is the abuser when he is screaming and yelling and using profanities especially considering person X is eight months pregnant with twins

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Joe mama's avatar

Good luck every getting pussy lmao

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Toldyaso's avatar

Take care of your first-hand bias before you abusively attack the person you're replying to.

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stephanie schruff's avatar

The abusive attacks on this thread are being made by the prior commenter/Hardy!!

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pj's avatar

I am really sorry for what you've gone through but I just want to say that there are better ways to express your story and explain the progression of abuse so that you don't give these guys more self-satisfaction at thinking they are correct.

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andkon's avatar

Do you consider "Fuck you, cunt." to be verbal abuse?

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Eric's avatar

Retards like andkon need to get their internet privileges taken away.

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andkon's avatar

Let me guess... someone who uses the word "retard" as a pejorative and wants to silence someone is deeply concerned about abuse. ЁЯЩД

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Nobody Vill's avatar

Nobody was murdered in this clip. No murder was threatened. No violence of any kind took place.

So I'm not sure why you'd bring that up. But if we're doing the oppression Olympics game you Americans love to play let's play: I got Cowders wife beat.

I read the article..ok so let's assume he talks down to get regularly in a domineering way and wanted her to handle dog food she thought was risky....let's assume those.

That's it? This is the worst they could find...according to the article with the video this is the 'pinnacle ' of his abuse?

Well I'm sorry but it confirms what I've always thought about Americans, especially middle class and above...youve gone soft as shit in the last 20 years and wouldn't know a real challenge if it bit you in the ass.

As someone (since we're doin that) who has had ACTUAL abuse (no Yanks people SAYING mean stuff to you is not the same as full on abuse) both physical and violent sexual when a kid from adult figures I would have traded the abuse she shows here for what I got in a hit second.

"Wifely duties" are we to really honestly believe that she married this hardcore neanderthal conservative without realising he had more traditional (perhaps backward?) ideas on how marriage works? That she's just finding this out now and is SHOCKED! SHOCKED TO FIND GAMBLING IN THIS CASINO!!?

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pj's avatar

she brings it up because this is where it starts and you guys keep saying that we only know this three minute video. Yeah that's why we are pretty convinced there's a whole lot more worse going on that we don't see. Plus we know about his abuses toward his coworkers and colleagues. By the time it gets to the point where it's leaking out into your work life, it's got to be terrible at home.

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andkon's avatar

Verbal abuse leads to death... but also "Fuck you, cunt."

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Barry McCockiner's avatar

hey look, more copy and paste spam bullshit coming from you instead of an actual argument

what a surprise!

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