You have obviously never been in the real world with your eyes open objectively. Women play the victim, while passive aggressively domineering through fake niceness, all to get their way, on a regular basis.
The wife is the one imposing a power dynamic here. She is avoiding the point at hand that he is presenting and being obstinate. She is asserting her will. With her stomach hanging out as if that is going to get her sympathy from naïve people like you.
she is pregnant with his child and she can wear whatever she wants around the house
hot damn that one put a heat under my collar
>she is asserting her will
she is asking to use the car to get groceries, while he's denying that to her and telling her she needs to learn 'respect' because she doesn't want to apply meds that are potentially toxic to pregnant women because she is A MONTH away from giving birth
>she is ignoring the point at hand
what is the point? that she should just NOT get groceries? That she should risk the health of their unborn child because he doesn't want to make the effort to apply meds to a sick animal? seriously, how else other than 'total submission' would you have wanted this interaction to end?
>you have obviously never been in the real world
Wow, I just must've been living in a fake one and never noticed that all the trees and shrubbery were cardboard cut-outs.
Your perspective on 'the real world' is severely biased or damaged; most likely either from relationship-related trauma, or from projecting your own personality traits onto others. Seek out therapy, if you're able, and possibly you can recover.
Women walk around like this with their stomachs hanging out in public as well because they see it online like lemmings, copy catting.
She is pregnant yes, maybe she should be reasonable and understand that she could simply take an Uber which would be much safer than her driving and more convenient.
It's simple, she is being patronizing to him like "text me and I'll get you what you want" instead of addressing a single point he has put forward. She side stepped the substance to assert her will unilaterally. All the while trying to come across as reasonable. This is a typical tact of females these days. It is less like a relationship dialogue and more like an HR or press secretary.
No, she offered a solution (text me...what you want) so she can run the errands that he for some reason won't run while she's 8 months pregnant.
*He* could have taken an uber. She's the one with multiple trips she has to complete. And you're right, he does seem sincere. He isn't lying or trying to be deceitful, he is very straightforwardly emotionally abusive. She tells him she loves him and he responds "I don't love you, that's the problem" to his EIGHT MONTH PREGNANT WIFE.
I'm not gonna act like their relationship was all sunshine and rainbows and that she was never manipulative or they've never argued in the past where she wasn't ever at fault, because that's absurd. But the end result is he
A) tried to assert *his* will over his wife by forcing her to use medication she has a *rational* fear over using because *she* is pregnant and *he* is not
B ) told her he doesn't love her
C) Tried to prevent her from using the car to run errands that he wouldn't do, with no alternative offered
D) showed actual 0 empathy, care, or patience.
That last one is obviously emotinally charged, but come on, man. She's 8 months pregnant. I'm not asking for a pity party for 9 straight months on someone just because they're knocked up. But if you have a wife, right, pregnant 8 months with your child, and you're berating, insulting, and denouncing your love for them because of possibly dangerous dog meds, do you REALLY think you're doing everything in your 'manly' duties? You're supposed to show patience and care even in situations where they could have done somethings/gotten to something because that's just what marriage is. If you want unemotional purely logical "handle A/B/C/D no exceptions" then get a roommate not a pregnant wife.
You are coping and making things way too complicated. He is the leader and much smarter than her. She is acting out and trying to pass it off as being reasonable in this clip. She is faking this whole distress play.
oh actually I have been involved in watching a friends marriage fall apart where the woman was the manipulator. I even offered an affidavit about their behavior to the family court. Yes I know it goes both ways. That doesn't make Crowder's behavior any better towards his wife.
A marriage should not have a power dynamic. Your comment reeks of someone who's never been in a peer relationship.
You have obviously never been in the real world with your eyes open objectively. Women play the victim, while passive aggressively domineering through fake niceness, all to get their way, on a regular basis.
The wife is the one imposing a power dynamic here. She is avoiding the point at hand that he is presenting and being obstinate. She is asserting her will. With her stomach hanging out as if that is going to get her sympathy from naïve people like you.
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>with her stomach hanging out
she is pregnant with his child and she can wear whatever she wants around the house
hot damn that one put a heat under my collar
>she is asserting her will
she is asking to use the car to get groceries, while he's denying that to her and telling her she needs to learn 'respect' because she doesn't want to apply meds that are potentially toxic to pregnant women because she is A MONTH away from giving birth
>she is ignoring the point at hand
what is the point? that she should just NOT get groceries? That she should risk the health of their unborn child because he doesn't want to make the effort to apply meds to a sick animal? seriously, how else other than 'total submission' would you have wanted this interaction to end?
>you have obviously never been in the real world
Wow, I just must've been living in a fake one and never noticed that all the trees and shrubbery were cardboard cut-outs.
Your perspective on 'the real world' is severely biased or damaged; most likely either from relationship-related trauma, or from projecting your own personality traits onto others. Seek out therapy, if you're able, and possibly you can recover.
Women walk around like this with their stomachs hanging out in public as well because they see it online like lemmings, copy catting.
She is pregnant yes, maybe she should be reasonable and understand that she could simply take an Uber which would be much safer than her driving and more convenient.
It's simple, she is being patronizing to him like "text me and I'll get you what you want" instead of addressing a single point he has put forward. She side stepped the substance to assert her will unilaterally. All the while trying to come across as reasonable. This is a typical tact of females these days. It is less like a relationship dialogue and more like an HR or press secretary.
No, she offered a solution (text me...what you want) so she can run the errands that he for some reason won't run while she's 8 months pregnant.
*He* could have taken an uber. She's the one with multiple trips she has to complete. And you're right, he does seem sincere. He isn't lying or trying to be deceitful, he is very straightforwardly emotionally abusive. She tells him she loves him and he responds "I don't love you, that's the problem" to his EIGHT MONTH PREGNANT WIFE.
I'm not gonna act like their relationship was all sunshine and rainbows and that she was never manipulative or they've never argued in the past where she wasn't ever at fault, because that's absurd. But the end result is he
A) tried to assert *his* will over his wife by forcing her to use medication she has a *rational* fear over using because *she* is pregnant and *he* is not
B ) told her he doesn't love her
C) Tried to prevent her from using the car to run errands that he wouldn't do, with no alternative offered
D) showed actual 0 empathy, care, or patience.
That last one is obviously emotinally charged, but come on, man. She's 8 months pregnant. I'm not asking for a pity party for 9 straight months on someone just because they're knocked up. But if you have a wife, right, pregnant 8 months with your child, and you're berating, insulting, and denouncing your love for them because of possibly dangerous dog meds, do you REALLY think you're doing everything in your 'manly' duties? You're supposed to show patience and care even in situations where they could have done somethings/gotten to something because that's just what marriage is. If you want unemotional purely logical "handle A/B/C/D no exceptions" then get a roommate not a pregnant wife.
to be honest my thoughts about the car control and telling her to use an Uber is that he wanted a record of where she had to go.
You are coping and making things way too complicated. He is the leader and much smarter than her. She is acting out and trying to pass it off as being reasonable in this clip. She is faking this whole distress play.
This u: https://youtu.be/a8MZBUoQt68
seriously are you 13?
tell the truth you like Bill Gothard am I right?
oh actually I have been involved in watching a friends marriage fall apart where the woman was the manipulator. I even offered an affidavit about their behavior to the family court. Yes I know it goes both ways. That doesn't make Crowder's behavior any better towards his wife.